En ovanligt vanlig vardag hos Ulrika 23/10 2020

En ovanligt vanlig vardag hos Ulrika 23/10 2020

En högkänslig, envis vädur och sjöjungfrus ovanligt vanliga vardag

Så är det fredag igen. Och det är dags för ännu en inblick i min ovanligt vanliga vardag. För mig flyter dagarna och veckorna ihop nu och jag har en känsla av att tiden går otroligt fort. Samtidigt är det som att jag är på 2 parallella tidslinjer och att tiden också går väldigt långsamt. Väldigt besynnerlig känsla. Framförallt när jag upplever båda samtidigt. Innan jag ”på riktigt” går igång och bjuder in dig i min ovanligt vanliga vardags  och dess guld -och gruskorn tänkte jag ”mjukstarta” med lite basics ;).

I Bromma, i en liten 2:a, bor jag (i ett sängskåp!!) tillsammans med mina barn och min ”nya” pojkvän – vi firade 10 år för 3 veckor sen så särskilt ”nytt” är det inte ;). Jag är skild sen 12 år och är ensamstående mamma till 2 tonåringar, Elliot 17 år och Livia 15 år. Jag älskar mina barn. Djupt och Innerligt! De är det bästa jag gjort, det bästa jag varit med om – det är dock inte alltid så lätt, eller ens så kul alltid, att vara tonårsmamma…  Min upplevelse är att de är mina största ”läromästare” i livet och jag får träna mycket på det mesta med dem ;).

2:47am – The Journey Home to My Heart

För 12 år sen var jag sjuk, utbränd och deprimerad med grava sömnstörningar och det har varit en väldigt tuff resa tillbaka till livet. Under den här tiden genomgick jag även en skilsmässa, blev utförsäkrad från försäkringskassan och hade dödsfall i familjen 🙁 … Efter att ha varit med i Malou efter tio samt Vardagspuls samt ett antal artiklar, fick jag så frågan av väldigt många när min självbiografi skulle komma – då de blev intresserade av min historia och ville läsa den. Så för exakt ett år sedan släppte jag min självbiografi 2:47 The Journey Home to My Heart

Syftet med 2:47 är bla att inspirera de som lider av psykisk ohälsa att det finns ett liv efter sjukdomen, samt få dem att känna att de ej är ensamma. Vi är tyvärr många som lider i tysthet av psykisk ohälsa/utbrändhet. Med det följer ofta även starka känslor av otillräcklighet, skuld och skam. Många som lider av psykisk ohälsa begår självmord och hela familjer drabbas. Att prata om det och att dela sina erfarenheter är ett sätt att bryta isoleringen och känslan av utanförskap, samt skuld och skam. Utbrändhet har ju blivit som ett slags ”folksjukdom” i Sverige tyvärr. Som att det är något prestigefyllt och bra att vara ”upptagen och stressad hela tiden”.. Visst är det intressant att vi i Sverige som har ett överflöd av allt det materiella, också har ett ”överflöd” av stress sjukdomar som depression och utbrändhet? Hur har det kunnat bli så obalanserat?

 

Envis, känslig och uthållig empat

Jag har många saker som jag tycker om och brinner för. Allt eftersom kommer jag att dela det här i min ovanligt vanliga vardag. Men först lite gott och blandat 😉 …

För dig som är intresserad av astrologi så är jag vädur, en ovanligt envis och uthållig sådan. Jag är dessutom högkänslig (Highly Senistive Person) och empat. Kombinationen med att vara envis, högkänslig, empatisk och uthållig är inte alltid lätt. Varken för mig själv, eller för de i min närhet 🙁 …Enligt Ayurvedan har jag även mycket dosha av pitta i mig..  Det gör det hela inte särskilt mycket lättare ;)..

Om du blir nyfiken på vad du är för dosha och vad det innebär – samt hur du kan skapa dig de bästa förutsättningarna i ditt liv så kontakta mig för en yogisk konsultation. Så du också lättare kan vara i balans samt stå i din fulla kraft och med en känsla av att vara ”unfuckwithable”.. (se blogpost To be Unfuckwithable)

Sjöjungfru och introvert

Jag älskar choklad, sommar, sol, hallon, hav, delfiner, och frihet. Inte nödvändigtvis i den ordningen ;). På sommaren älskar jag att vara i skärgården, på en klippa – likt en sjöjungfru – nära havet och göra ingenting. Där ligger jag gärna hela dagen ;). Personlig utveckling, skuggarbete, inre och yttre resor samt relationer ligger mig varmt om hjärtat. Jag ogillar starkt alla slags förtryck, orättvisor och elakheter. Jag är fullkomligt ointresserad av mode och trender, samt tekniska prylar. Djur och barn älskar mig, och jag älskar dem. De är naturliga, okomplicerade och lätta att umgås med. Då jag är introvert –  trots att jag älskar människor – vet jag inte alltid de sociala koderna när eller hur man umgås. Så jag umgås helst med min familj och mina nära vänner. Eller är själv ute i naturen.

I hela mitt liv har jag jobbat med människor, som förskollärare, sjukgymnast, och yogalärare bland annat. Jag upphör aldrig att förvånas över vår kraft och enorma potential – samtidigt fascineras jag även av våra många gånger så omedvetna, dumma och destruktiva beteenden. Och över våra val. Hur vi behandlar oss själva och andra, samt den här planeten vi alla bor på.

 

Frihet

Det livet jag har skapat nu passar således mig och mina behov, det är viktigt för mig. Jag jobbar hemifrån, är fri att bestämma själv vad, när och hur jag vill jobba – och med vem ;). Jag är författare, föreläsare och utbildare med hela världen som arbetsfält. Trots det har jag väldigt mycket frihet och fri tid. Som jag sa, det är viktigt för mig. Apropå frihet – jag tittar ut genom fönstret ser att solen skiner. Naturen kallar och jag ska ut på en lång, skön promenad längs vattnet och njuta av livets vardagliga guldkorn. Vinden i håret. Solen i ögonen. En mumsig kanelbulle på en bänk. Tystnad. Stillhet. Skönhet. Varande. Njutning. Frihet!

Vad innebär frihet för dig i vardagen?

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

// Ulrika

An unusually ordinary everyday life with Ulrika

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An unusually ordinary everyday life with Ulrika

So it’s Friday again. And it’s time for another insight into my unusually ordinary everyday life. For me, the days and weeks flow together now and I have a feeling that time goes incredibly fast. At the same time, it’s like I’m on 2 parallel timelines and that time also passes very slowly. Very strange feeling. Especially when I experience both at the same time. Before I “really” get started and invite you into my unusually ordinary everyday life and its gold and gravel nuggets, I thought I would warm up and with some “basics” ;).

In Bromma, in a small 2 room apartment, I live (in a bedside cabinet!!) with my children and my “new” boyfriend – we celebrated 10 years 3 weeks ago so it is not that “new” ;). I have been divorced for 12 years and am a single mother of 2 teenagers, Elliot 17 years and Livia 15 years. I love my children. Deep and wholeheartedly! They are the most precious beings and my best achievement in life. Yet it is not always so easy, or even  fun always, to be a teenage mother 🙁 … My experience is that they are my greatest “teachers” in life and I get to practice with them on a daily basis ;).

 

2:47 The Journey Home to My Heart

12 years ago I was sick, burnt out and depressed with severe sleep disorders and it has been a very tough journey back to life. During this time I also went through a divorce, was shut down from the social wellfare and had casulties in the family 🙁 … After appearing in a few TV features at Malou and in Vardagspuls, and in a number of articles, I was asked by many when my autobiography would come – when they became interested in my story and wanted to read it. So exactly one year ago I released my autobiography: 2:47 The Journey Home to My Heart.

The purpose of 2:47 is, among other things, to inspire those who suffer from mental illness that there is a life after the “dis”-ease, and to make them feel that they are not alone. Unfortunately, many of us suffer in silence from mental illness / burnout. This is often accompanied by strong feelings of inadequacy, guilt and shame. Many people who suffer from mental illness commit suicide and entire families are affected. To talk and share about our experiences is a way to break the isolation and the feeling of exclusion, as well as guilt and shame. Burnout has become a kind of “public disease” in Sweden, unfortunately. Like it is a lot of prestige and something good to be “busy and stressed all the time” .. Surely it is interesting that we in Sweden who have an abundance of materialistic stuff, also have an “abundance” of stress diseases such as depression and burnout? How have our society become so unbalanced?

I have many things that I like and am passionate about. As time goes on, I will share this in my unusually ordinary everyday life. Lets start with this:

A stubborn sensitive empath

For those of you who are interested in astrology, I am Aries, an unusually stubborn and and with a lot of endurance. I am also a Highly Sensitive Person and an empath. The combination of being stubborn, highly sensitive, empathetic and persistent is not always easy. Neither for myself, nor for those around me .. : ( …

According to Ayurveda, I also have a lot of pitta in me .. It does not make the whole thing much easier 😉 .. If you are curious about what you are for dosha and what it means – and how you can create the best conditions in your life, contact me for a yogic consultation here. So you can also more easily be in balance, stand in your own power and with a feeling of being “unfuckwithable” .. (see blogpost To be Unfuckwithable)

Mermaid and introvert

I love chocolate, summer, sun, raspberries, sea, dolphins, and freedom. Not necessarily in that order ;). In the summer I love to be in the archipelago, on a cliff – like a mermaid – near the ocean and do nothing. I love to be there all day :). Personal development, shadow work, inner and outer travels and relationships are close to my heart. I strongly dislike all kinds of oppression, injustice and cruelty. I am completely uninterested in fashion and trends, as well as technical stuff. Animals and children love me, and I love them. They are natural, uncomplicated and easy to get along with. As an introvert – even though I love people – I do not always know the social codes when or how to socialize. So I prefer to spend time with my family and my close friends. Or by myself in nature.

Throughout my life, I have always worked with people, such as a preschool teacher, physiotherapist – and as a yoga teacher/yogatherapist – among other things. I never cease to be amazed at our power and enormous potential – at the same time I am fascinated by our  unconscious, stupid and destructive behaviors and choices. How we treat ourselves and others, as well as this planet we all live on.

Freedom

The life I have created now thus suits me and my needs, it is important to me. I work from home, and I am free to decide for myself what, when and how I want to work – and with whom ;). I am a writer, lecturer and trainer with the whole world as my field of work. Despite that, I have a lot of freedom and free time. Like I said, it’s important to me. Speaking of freedom – I look out the window and see that the sun is shining. Nature calls for me and I will go for a long walk along the water and enjoy life’s everyday gold nuggets. The wind in my hair. The sun in the eyes. A yummy cinnamon bun on a bench. To enjoy the Silence. Calmness. Beauty. Just being. Freedom!

What does freedom mean to you in everyday life?

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

// Ulrika

 

New Theme – The seven Virtues!

New Theme – The seven Virtues!

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After the theme about the seven deadly sins – to create balance and harmony – we now want to go into its opposite poles. So this new exciting theme will thus be about the seven virtues.

What are they? The seven sacred virtues are the positive opposites or mirror properties of the seven deadly sins of Catholicism. During the Middle Ages, they played a major role in ethical discussions and reflections. Our experience, however, is that they affect us to a very high degree even today.

 

The Catechism of the Catholic Church defines virtue as “a habitual and firm disposition to do the good.” Traditionally, the seven Christian virtues or heavenly virtues combine the four classical cardinal virtues of prudence, justice, temperance, and courage (or fortitude) with the three theological virtues of faith, hope, and charity. These were adopted by the Church Fathers as the seven virtues.

Wikipedia

After Pope Gregory released his list of seven deadly sins in AD 590, the seven virtues became identified as chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, patience, kindness, and humility. Practicing them is said to protect one against temptation from the seven deadly sins.

 

Virtue             Latin               Gloss                                              Sin                   Latin

Chastity           Castitas            Purity, abstinence                            Lust                 Luxuria

Temperance     Temperantia  Humanity, equanimity                   Gluttony          Gula

Charity             Caritas             Will, benevolence, sacrifice             Greed             Avaritia

Diligence         Industria          Persistence, effortfulness, ethics      Sloth                Acedia

Patience           Patientia          Forgiveness, mercy                              Wrath             Ira

Kindness         Humanitas       Satisfaction, compassion                     Envy                Invidia

Humility          Humilitas         Bravery, modesty, reverence             Pride                Superbia

Wikipedia

We will dive into three aspects today.

  1. Shadows

Some of our reflections are that the two virtues Humility humilitas and Compassion humanita – have its pure intention encoded in the English word for humanity; human beings. That is, the pure original intention for us humans is the natural states of being humble and showing compassion.

The shadows – which are instead based on fear – are the deadly sins of pride and envy (Latin superbia and invidia, see blog post pride and envy). The shadows are manipulated from its natural intention by the church and the elite, implemented over millennia.

Superbia is about being above someone else and as an invidia to be separated from the whole and the collective. This results in disconnection in being human, ie being humble and showing compassion – empathy – to oneself and others.

The unconscious programs that mean that we are not free and can stand in our power are thus our shadows (fear- and separation-based). We are constantly kept suppressed by sin, and we never feel good enough. Because we do not feel good enough, we maintain our victim roles. Thus, we are controllable and live like “passive puppets”.

2. Power of Words

The words we use and express are more important than we understand. It is as we see it – part of the unconscious individual and collective programming.

In other words, this means that we need to cleanse ourselves from programming and the abused words. This so we can transform the deadly sins (shadows / fears) into greater consciousness and virtues (love). In this way we create balance and harmony.

We often identify with the programming and think we are sinners. When in fact it is the programming itself that is fucked up – not us. To transform the programs, we first need to become aware of that we have programs. Then we need to realize that the programs are the ones who are fucked up.

We, as human beings, are not programs and shadows – we have them. There are opportunities to shift our identity from what we do/think – to BE the divine source of Love and Creation. In other words, the natural essence of us humans is that we are basically good – yet we have fucked up programs and behaviors. Therein lies the paradox of the challenge and the gift at the same time.

3. Distorted Virtues

Another reflection is that the aspects called virtues, some of them are as fucked up in their programming as their opposite. For example, chastity, not acknowledging and embracing the natural sexual energy that enables and creates life. To distort something holy and sacred such as sexuality into something ugly and sinful is not natural. How can we create people in a natural way if we limit our sexuality? But perhaps it is precisely the limitations of humanity that the elite that governs has the intention to create?

This text is an excerpt from Holy F*ck and Sacred Water-The Secret Connections to Everything (chapter 1):

“Sacred union is for us the same as sacred sexuality. Sacred sexuality is a symbol of the holy f*ck. For instance, when rain falls from the sky, it penetrates the earth. Rain ignites life into the dry seed and enables the seed to grow through the hardest of concrete. This seed of life is part of the creation cycle through the sacred union. It is like cosmic sex of all creation between Heaven and Earth.

Everything originates from this connection to sacred sexuality – it is within us, around us, in nature, in the cosmos. The circle of creation consists of the polarities of light (life & creation) and dark (destruction & death). Something has to “die” for something new to be reborn. Although energy never really dies; it just takes different forms and shapes. It moves from form to the formless, back into a new form.

We should no longer fear the feminine darkness and only celebrate the masculine light for we are all both. Sacred union is, in other words, God/Creation manifested, or a “holy f*ck.”

 

What do you think about the seven virtues and what do you identify yourself with?

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

 

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

From Separation to Wholeness

From Separation to Wholeness

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As we mentioned earlier – including in the blog post Unfuckwithable from 27/9 – everything we do, write, and offer is aligned with our mission and our vision of a better and more loving world for all.

Our work includes transforming unconsciousness into consciousness, and our shadows into our power (see all blog posts in September 2020 about the seven deadly sins, for example). To transform fear to release love. We are passionate about creating wholeness and sustainability. How to shift separation and instead wholeness and UNITY is created. This in order to restore balance and harmony.

Why does it looks so dark?

The irony is that the world has never been more unbalanced and disharmonious in our lifetime than it is now. This is because everything that has been hidden in the shadows for thousands of years is coming to exposure now. We become aware of it – it is in our face – and we cannot fail to see it or experience it. This gives each and one of us a new opportunity to create the world we want to see – the world we want to live in.

The question is if everybody wants to see – and dare to take the opportunity to transform their own “shit” – to let it go so something new can unfold and grow…

It is one of the qualities in what we call being “unfuckwithable” (see blog post Unfuckwithable 27/9).

 

A Vicious Cycle

The polarities in the world that create separation are more extreme than ever before (see blog post about new rules 30/9). Many people feel unease/disease. Many lack meaning, purpose and wholeness. Life feels empty.

We are stressed, sick, scared and anxious – and fed daily with the importance of keeping our distance and being separated. This creates even more stress. Our immune system is deteriorating.  We have more symptoms, diseases and are even more out of balance. It is a negative downward spiral that takes place in the individual – and thus in the collective field.

 

 

 

So what can you do to create more wholeness, harmony and balance?

We are not “allowed” to meet physically connected due to the current restrictions. At the same time, many of us long for more togetherness, community and meaning – along with like-minded people. It becomes a paradox in itself.

Many of us long for something and we know intuitively what we need – because our bodies, like the earth, automatically strive for balance and harmony.

Thus, it feels extra fun to present Wholyland!!

We have for several months co-created – together with several others – an international digital member’s platform…

Wholyland – an interactive platform for growth, awareness, wholeness and UNITY.

 

What is Wholyland?

”We co-create an interactive community for those who desire to live in a world which values authenticity, vulnerability, heart centered compassion and freedom for everyone to express and explore their own unique self and to reach their highest potential.

An online membership platform with the vision to manifest a wholy new Nation; where conscious, heart centred leaders connect and play beyond the current matrix to co-create a new reality where we thrive in sovereign leaderhood.

How would your life change if you could co-create what you quietly dream, hope and long for?

The wisdom of the podcast Live the Impossible show is a start to manifest your desired future on a personal and global level.  Where you start with yourself and then extend the principles into the greater world.

This cannot be done in isolation. To create lasting change you need the support of a community that fosters the exchange of ideas and perspectives, offers accountability and inspiration. This is a journey to a new way of living. Through collaboration we transform, balance and design a safe, harmonious and thriving world to benefit all. A place of wholeness and holiness.

Three Core beliefs we live by:

Wholeness: Recognise in order to be a fully expressed human being, we need to take into account all areas of life and our environment as well as our spirituality.

Sovereignty: Freedom to choose how we want to live, make decisions in alignment with our desires and take radical responsibility for our actions.

Genius: Our unique gifts, talents, perspectives and abilities we share with the world in an impactful way to co-create the world we want to see”.

When?

The beta version opens in October.

As a reader of unfuckwithable blog, you get the unique opportunity to join Wholyland for free for 1 month!

Read more about Wholyland at: http://wholyland.me/

 

Warmly Welcome to Wholyland – we look forward to interact with you here <3!

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

 

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

New f*cked up rules and restrictions around the world

New f*cked up rules and restrictions around the world

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Now, one month after our book release of Holy F * ck and Sacred Water in Sweden, Tora is back in restrictive Denmark. The chaos and restrictions in the world have since then increased even more. Last month when Tora came home she was met by soldiers on the train. The military emptied the train of passengers so that everyone (in a row) would show passports. Rules on mandatory face masks in public transport had been introduced during these few days Tora was in Sweden. These rules have now become even stricter and also spread to cafes, restaurants and bars.

 

Rules in Denmark

We try to summarize these new f * cked up rules in Denmark as the logic may not be so obvious. We are curious to hear your experiences and reflections on the logic or lack thereof.

  • When traveling by public transport, wear a face mask at all times, even if you are sitting alone in the passenger compartment.
  • On the other hand, you can go and buy food at a supermarket without a face mask where people stand and walk close to each other
  • The virus only goes out after 10 pm in the evening. Previously it was midnight. The virus thus seems to be time-sensitive. Or perhaps a vampire – as darkness falls earlier and earlier this season.3In cafes, restaurants, etc., a face mask should be on when you walk or stand up.  As the virus probably floats high above the heads of those who sit down and do not need a face mask.
  •   In other words, you get up – face mask on. If you sit down – face mask off.
  • But on the bus, when you sit alone, the virus infects you regardless. So the virus is not only time sensitive, but also seems to be geographically aware.
  • On the other hand, not all of these rules apply in all municipalities. It is up to each municipality to decide how the virus is transmitted. It’s simply said a very spontaneous and various virus.

No, it’s too complicated to keep up with the rules that change several times a week. It’s also something about being allowed to be 500 people together sometimes, and 50 or was it 10 in other situations….

As a little update – there has been a law suggestion that came out on October 1st, 2020 with forced – everything! Also for those with a “society critical disease”!!!! Link to the Danish høringsforslag here. This is scary folks!

If the link is removed – here is the document Foreløbigt udkast – høring

But, we will have to move on to the rest of the world now….


What do Denmark say about Sweden then?

When a journalist asked Mette Fredriksen – the Danish Prime Minister – about the government’s attitude to Sweden’s such different methods, the short answer was: “It is not a competition” (see her here). We will leave it with that….

But at the same time, the world is competing to become the best at handling corona. As the Minister of Health in Denmark said so nicely on the news on 23/9 that “we will be the best“. 😉

 

What happens in Australia?

In Australia, they have decided that you are not allowed to sing “Happy birthday” . Why? The corona virus spread when you sing “P” and “B” sounds of course! 😉

In the state of Victoria, you are also not allowed to go out after 8 pm. You will be arrested there if you do not wear a face mask when you sit alone on a bench in the park. Or if you want to hold an event about freedom. One morning, police stormed a pregnant woman’s home and arrested her in front of her children. This is because she had posted an event on Facebook. The event was about how these restrictions and rules restrict our freedom.

And at the same time in the US

In the United States, mothers with newborn babies should touch them as little as possible in the first few weeks so that the babies do not become infected with corona (Read more here). Because there is no scientific evidence that it can create long-term problems in the future for the children if they do not get physical contact… Or? Oh wait, there are thousands of studies done over the decades that prove it. We think e.g. on attachment theory and how important attachment is for the immune system – both in children and mothers.

 

This separation has to STOP

We can continue to write for days about all these f *cked up rules and restrictions. What they all have in common is separation, separation and even more separation. When we are not allowed to touch each other, we become sicker as the immune system decreases.

The separation polarizes us into two extreme groups. Those who buy the whole corona pandemic story, and those who question the same. The latter group are now so-called conspiracy theorists. Either you are a conspiracy theorist or a sleeping sheep. Both labels are condescending and mean.

Is this the separated world we want?

What Holy F*ck and Sacred Water says:

In Holy F * ck and Sacred Water (Chapter 42) we also write about what is happening in the world now. Among other things, we write:

One way of upholding fear is the present coronavirus. The virus was consciously created by man to spread fear and dominance; it made people go into the stress response of “freezing” as we are being dominated by the “global virus” and its restrictions. All of a sudden, governments – without the democratic consent of the people – have put in hasty laws of forced social distancing and vaccinations. Freedom of speech is limited, and you will go to jail if you criticize the governments and their choices, as mentioned before.

Cash has been limited or removed due it being a “contamination risk.” For absolutely no logical reason, some, but not all countries have gone in to ordered lockdowns. Schools are closed, and businesses are going bankrupt. Unless it is a big chain, then they have not only been open, but made billions of dollars in profit from the lockdown. Police and military personnel walk the streets and fly their helicopters to restrict people from moving freely outdoors. Yet, people are allowed to go to supermarkets and big chain stores.

 

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

To be Unfuckwithable

To be Unfuckwithable

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We like to “play” “find connections” with everything between heaven and earth. For example, the connection between the inner and outer realms. Or what the past, present and future have in common, etc. “Connecting the dots” is important for us to understand why we are as we are when we did not become as we should – as Tora’s father usually says. 😉

We see the common thread through our blog posts and the importance of being unfuckwithable by being aware and co-create of our lives. The contrast from being an unconscious victim of the circumstances. Internal as well as external circumstances.

Being unfuckwithable (see blog post “What does unfuckwithable mean to you“).

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Or as we write in Holy F*ck and Sacred Water-the Secret Connetions to Everything

We are really here to be “unfuckwithable” – empowered – living as and in our own power. The whole world looks kind of f*cked up at the moment, so we, the authors, have come to put it right, together. To remind people of the sacredness and holiness of everyone and everything. That is how we are connected through a holy f*ck and co-create peace on Earth.

 

What is your unfuckwithable contribution?

In other words, we want to be part of creating a more loving, conscious and better world for all of us. A world we can give to our children with a clear conscience.
Everything we do – blogs, podcasts, books, events and programs and so on – aim at our mission and vision for a better world.

As you know, it is not always easy to be unfuckwithable and have a great mission – in a world that does everything to limit our greatness and dull our senses. The challenges are many. Many of us lose friends, clients and customers. We are accused and attacked by loved ones because we may not have the same views and opinions as them. Our truths that we express in the media are censored and removed (see for example posts from 3 and 8 September here). We are called “conspiracy theorists”, ridiculed and targeted. And yet, despite this, many of us follow our hearts and express our truths and perspectives Live the Impossible show here) (listen for instance to. We are uncomfortable – both for ourselves and others – and continue to ask questions.

It takes lots of courage, strength and endurance to be unfuckwithable. And we start to be many of us. More and more people are waking up realizing what a f * cked up world it is. But before you can change the world, you need to change yourself. It all starts and ends with ourselves. Before many wake up, they may get sick… Maybe not always from what they think they get sick of – but from what they need to see and transform. We see both the potential and we see the challenges. It is one of our strengths and gifts.

 

How do we express our unfuckwithableness?

You who are inspired and feel like an “unfuckwithable” – or are curious to be – are in for a treat. We have several exciting things going on.

First out is our 2-day workshop online October 7-8, 2020 with the theme Unfuckwithable – of course! 😉 You can choose to join on one or both days! Read about the event here!

 

Other exciting things coming up are Wholyland – a new international membership platform that will be launched on November 1, 2020 (with a beta version starting in October, 2020). We will write more about this in another blog post.

But for now…

What is your excuse to not be unfuckwithable?

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

Our reflections on the seven deadly sins

Our reflections on the seven deadly sins

English:

We just want to stop for a moment and share our reflections on the theme of the seven deadly sins we have had recently. It has been incredibly interesting, informative but also depressing to see the Church’s ongoing preaching and programming. This programming, which began thousands of years ago, is still very much active and affects us. Even though many of us are not religious believers, or active in church services, these programs are unconsciously within us and in the structures and culture of society.

Common nominators:

There are several common nominators of all these so-called sins. They have become manipulated, destructive and thus negative. The pure energy of these words are not sinful / wrong in its original sense. It is the shadow and the resistance to the pure, natural energy that makes them destructive, fucked up and keeps us enslaved. It is easy to understand that it is difficult / less easy to feel free with these unconscious programs that weigh us down, and create internal and external conflicts. To be free thus means to break free from these unconscious programs and regain our power. By making the unconscious conscious, we can transform the shadows and become free.

Entanglement:

Speaking of common nominators – quantum physics talks about everything being connected (entangled) and in this perspective the seven deadly sins become a “negative entanglement”. It is as if a “Matrix” is created in itself – which becomes our reality. This means that one needs to cleanse and transform all seven deadly sins and their shadows into its pure natural and original meaning. When they are transformed, a new, better reality is created. Where we are free from the “Matrix” and see the world with love and compassion in a more multidimensional perspective.

We therefore see it as extremely important that each of us takes radical responsibility and clear our own “shit”. That we all do our own individual shadow work – and not just focus on light work – to create the change we want to see in the collective.

How do you embrace your deadly sins and their shadows?

The seven deadly sins, are pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth. 

Quote from Holy F*ck and Sacred Water

The following text is an excerpt from our book Holy F*ck and Sacred Water-the Secret Connetions to Everything(Chapter 34):

 

“Leaves are falling each fall, but most of us have lost con-tact with Mother Earth and do not understand what that means for us and our own cycles. As we have lost our con-nection to the natural cycles – our own, nature’s, and the bigger ecosystems we are all part of – we ignore the signs we might get, which can lead to long-term diseases.

How many of us have felt blue and almost depressed during the dark season, or know someone who has? There is a simple explanation for it. We are meant to withdraw, reflect, and let go of the old so we have renewed energy when spring comes. Instead, during the darkest months of the year in the Northern Hemisphere, we are often more stressed and busier than ever. And we wonder why we create diseases and stress-related symptoms.Everything that is consciously connected is a holy f*ck! It is how we consciously choose to be united with all our aspects: light, darkness, good and bad sides. Quantum physics speaks about this phenomenon as entanglement with others.

Quantum entanglement is a curious phenomenon that occurs when two particles remain connected, even over large distances, in such a way that actions performed on one par-ticle have an effect on the other. For instance, one particle might be spun in a clockwise direction. The result on the second particle would be an equal anti-clockwise spin. The holy f*ck!”

 

What do you think?

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

 

 

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

 

Sloth – the last of the 7 deadly sins

Sloth – the last of the 7 deadly sins

English:

Sloth is the most difficult sin to define and credit as sin, since it refers to an assortment of ideas, dating from antiquity and including mental, spiritual, pathological, and physical states. One definition is a habitual disinclination to exertion, or laziness.

Views concerning the virtue of work to support society and further God’s plan suggest that through inactivity, one invites sin. “For Satan finds some mischief still for idle hands to do. Satan is the god of sin, the underworld and all things evil.”

The word “sloth” is a translation of the Latin term acedia (Middle English, acciditties) and means “without care”. Mentally, acedia, has a number of distinctive components of which the most important is affectlessness, a lack of any feeling about self or other, a mind-state that gives rise to boredom, rancor, apathy, and a passive inert or sluggish mentation. Physically, acedia is fundamentally with a cessation of motion and an indifference to work; it finds expression in laziness, idleness, and indolence. Two commentators consider the most accurate translation of acedia to be “self-pity,” for it “conveys both the melancholy of the condition and self-centeredness upon which it is founded.”

Wikipedia

Our reflections:

The way we see it, the programing from church have taken a fully natural and necessary behavior like sloth (read laziness) as sin. By making it a sin we stay busy, disempowered and work all the time – as we do not want to be sinners. When we are busy all the time we are not free to listen to our bodies and our own needs.

Instead we become depleted of energy which results in apathy and passiveness. We don’t care about ourselves and others, or the environment. This create a lot of unconscious stress which creates even more “dullness” and “sluggish minds”. It is a vicious and ongoing cycle. Therefore it creates its own polarity when being busy – we shut down spiritually and emotionally.

We shut down from our natural states and what is natural. Like we don’t care that there are popping up 4g+/5g masts everywhere. Or that we use facemasks and just throw them outside the bins and in nature. We sit there like sloths in front of the tv, watching main stream media and become even more unconsciously programmed and enslaved. We don’t question anything they say on tv. We get dull and sluggish in our minds.

Hence this become a destructive behavior for the individual as well as the collective. Our deep unconscious desire to please God – even if you don’t believe in God – makes us the sinners we do not want to be. It becomes a self-fulling prophecy.

What can we do about it?

Our solution to free ourselves from this unconscious program is to do the opposite. Allow yourself to be lazy. To rest. To do nothing. Still your mind. Shut of your tv and your phone and all the “outer chatter” that is going on and connect with nature. And read our book Holy F*ck and sacred Water and undertake our programs ….

Quote from Holy F*ck and Sacred water:

This text is an excerpt from our book Holy F*ck and Sacred water – The Secret Connections to Everything (Chapter 29):

“Leaves are falling each fall, but most of us have lost con-tact with Mother Earth and do not understand what that means for us and our own cycles. As we have lost our con-nection to the natural cycles – our own, nature’s, and the bigger ecosystems we are all part of – we ignore the signs we might get, which can lead to long-term diseases. How many of us have felt blue and almost depressed during the dark season, or know someone who has? There is a simple expla-nation for it. We are meant to withdraw, reflect, and let go of the old so we have renewed energy when spring comes. Instead, during the darkest months of the year in the Northern Hemisphere, we are often more stressed and busier than ever. And we wonder why we create diseases and stress-related symptoms.”

 

How do you embrace your sloth?

 

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

 

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

Gluttony – one of the 7 deadly sins, part 6

Gluttony – one of the 7 deadly sins, part 6

English:

Gluttony (Latin: gula, derived from the Latin gluttire meaning “to gulp down or swallow”) means over-indulgence and over-consumption of food, drink, or wealth items, particularly as status symbols.

In Christianity, it is considered a sin if the excessive desire for food causes it to be withheld from the needy. Some Christian denominations consider gluttony one of the seven deadly sins.

Wikipedia 

Our reflections:

The way we see it, like everything gluttony has many different aspects, unconscious programs and shadows to it. Here in the western world many people are suffering from overweight and obesity. This in itself causes other symptoms and diseases such as cardiovascular diseases.

Obesity has reached epidemic proportions globally, with at least 2.8 million people dying each year as a result of being overweight or obese. Once associated with high-income countries, obesity is now also prevalent in low- and middle-income countries.

 -WHO

The polarity of gluttony is equally bad as people starve to death as well. It is a loose/loose situation, nobody wins or gains from this. Except for those who regulates and profit from this gluttony, overconsumption and global distribution….

“Approximately 9 million people die of world hunger each year according to world hunger statistics; more than the death toll for malaria, AIDS and tuberculosis combined in 2012.

The world produces enough food to feed everyone. Food availability per capita has increased from approximately 2220 kcal per person per day in the 1960s to 2790 kcals per person per day in 2006.

Poverty is the number one cause of world hunger. The World Bank estimates that 10.7 percent of the world’s population, or 767 million people, lived on less than $1.90 per day in 2013.”

How many have died from covid?

It is almost impossible to find a correct number of this since not even WHO seems to know ;)..

In our perspective Gluttony is one of the causes of the extreme polarities of the global imbalances seen today. Only 2095 of the world´s billionaires control the enormous amount of $8 trillion in 2020, according to Forbes.

Compare this to the 767 million people who live on less than $1.90 per day.

This is for us really f*cked up and makes it very clear this is NOT a question of overpopulation. This is about Greed, Gluttony and other deadly sins.

Quote from Holy F*ck

The quote below is from our book Holy F*ck and Sacred Water – The Secret Connections to Everything (chapter 34):

“We give our silent consent that tons of food are thrown away yet millions of people are starving. Some so-called leaders claim that there is not enough food for everyone and decide who will receive it and not. Same leaders say that we are overpopulated yet want us to have mandatory vaccinations to stay “healthy” and alive. Where is the logic in that?”

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

 

Lust – one of the seven deadly sins – part 5

Lust – one of the seven deadly sins – part 5

English:

Lust is a psychological force producing intense desire for an object, or circumstance fulfilling the emotion while already having a significant other or amount of the desired object. Lust can take any form such as the lust for sexuality (see libido), love, money, or power. It can take such mundane forms as the lust for food (see gluttony) as distinct from the need for food.

Lust is defined as immoral because its object or action of affection is improperly ordered according to natural law and/or the appetite for the particular object (eg sexual desire) is governing the person’s intellect and will rather than the intellect and will governing the appetite for that object. Whereas passion, regardless of its strength is maintained to be something God-given and moral, because the purpose, actions and intentions behind it are benevolent and ordered toward creation, while also being governed by the person’s intellect and will.

Wikipedia

Our reflections:

According to Buddha, the Enlightened one, there are 2 main causes that cause the suffering of humanity. The first one is aversion (resistance/avoiding) and the second one is cravings (desire/lust). And that most of us human beings are going from aversion to cravings and back again constantly. So lust/cravings/desire for money (see greed), power, sex and so on is a big cause for suffering. And when we look on the world today, we see the seven deadly sins EVERYWHERE-and most of us are not even aware…

It is, and has been for centuries, normalized within the society. We see a big difference both in energy and in intention when taking actions from lust and desire – rather than taking action from passion (see quote above). When we take actions from lust it causes ongoing suffering. The reason as we see it is that Lust rise from a lack perspective (fear based). This then becomes an action from our shadows and unconscious wounded aspects in ourself. When we take action from passion it is from a pure space of creative lifeforce – the spark that we write about in Holy F*ck and Sacred Water. This comes from a perspective of abundance (love based).

On the other hand there is a  fine line between use and abuse of sexual lust. It is very subtle, and it is the intention that is vital. And the consequences can be enormous. It is also a subconscious program within us to continue to keep us separated from the source of life and the life force.

Quote from Holy F*ck:

The quote below is from our book Holy F*ck and Sacred Water – The Secret Connections to Everything (Chapter 7):

“One of the most common reasons we lose lust and passion is when our bodies are stressed and depleted of energy, so our desire leaves quickly. We “dry out” and hence become disconnected from our flow and life force.”

 How do you experience the difference between lust and passion?

When do you lose your sexual lust?

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

 

7 dödsynder:Avund del 4/ Seven deadly sins: Envy part 4

7 dödsynder:Avund del 4/ Seven deadly sins: Envy part 4

Svenska:

Dagens syndaord är Avund, som kommer från Latinska ordet invidia.

Avund är en känsla som uppstår när en person saknar någon annans (förmodad) överlägsna egenskap, prestation eller innehav, och antingen önskar sig det eller önskar att den andra personen inte hade det. Avund kan bero på dålig självkänsla som är resultatet av en uppåtgående social jämförelse som hotar en persons självbild: en annan person har något som den avundsjuke tycker är viktigt att ha. Om den andra personen upplevs vara lik den avundsamme, blir den framkallade avunden särskilt intensiv, eftersom det signalerar till den avundsjuke att det lika gärna kunde varit han eller hon som besatt det önskade föremålet.

Bertrand Russell sade att avund var en av de mest potenta orsakerna till olycka. Det är en universell och mest olycksaliga sidan av den mänskliga naturen, eftersom en avundsjuk person inte bara blir olycklig av sitt avund, utan önskar även att tillfoga olycka på andra. Trots att avund i allmänhet betraktas som något negativt, trodde Russel också att avund var en drivande kraft bakom utvecklingen mot demokrati och måste uthärdas för att uppnå ett mer rättvist socialt system.

Ordet avund kommer från fornsvenskans afund med betydelsen ‘harm’ eller ‘fiendskap’. Avund är enligt den kristna skolastiken en av de sju dödssynderna.

Våra reflektioner:

Vi tycker att det är väldigt intressant att det latinska ordet för avund kommer från Invidia – vilket betyder att ordet individ är inbäddat med koder för avund. I Quantum-grammatik filosofin  menar man att våra ord ”kapade” så att vi omedvetet har programmerats till negativitet (du kan lyssna mer om detta här). Genom att använda ord och språket vi talar i dess negativa form är det vad vi manifesterar. Våra ord manifesteras nämligen i verkligheten. Därför skapar vi de saker vi inte vill genom våra tankar och ord.

I vårt individualistiska samhälle i dag styrs vi därmed av omedveten avund och många har svårt för att glädja sig med och för andra. Den dödliga syndens avund är inbäddad i individen som “normalt” – och vi är inte ens medvetna om det! Många säger att detta är naturligt att vi har dessa känslor av avund. Vi ser det annorlunda. Vi ser det som program som håller oss förslavade. Det är inte naturligt, men det är normalt eftersom vi alla har dessa program.

Hur ofta är du avundsjuk på någon eller något? Hur djupa är dina program?

Vad kan vi göra för att befria oss från dessa omedvetna program?

Det finns många sätt och metoder för att transformera och befria sig från dessa omedvetna program. Ett sätt är att arbeta med dem är genom ”Sacred Sexuality övningar”. För att komma med ett exempel så deltog Ullis i en Yoni puja (firande och hedring av vagina) med hundratals kvinnor. Detta uttrycks i citatet nedan från boken Holy F*ck and Sacred Water-The Secret Connections to Everything (Kapitel 24):

 ……to celebrate our sisterhood by dancing. The sight was beautiful; hundreds of naked bodies were hugging, crying, singing, moving like one, dancing to “Girls just want to have fun.” There was no comparison, no competition, no jealousy, no envy, no backstabbing, no bullshit – just pure love, gratitude, and a deeply profound feeling of connectedness. We are all one – Oneness! This memory has become very precious to me! Sometimes when I almost lose hope for us human beings and humankind, I remember this feeling. It helps me to continue my work of guiding people into an increased consciousness. To help others purify their inner water, to flow and reconnect with their hearts! However, it is always an inside job to purify the water and to allow the heart to open.

English:

Todays sinful word is Envy that originates from the Latin word invidia.

Envy (from Latin invidia) is an emotion which “occurs when a person lacks another’s superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it”.

Aristotle defined envy as pain at the sight of another’s good fortune, stirred by “those who have what we ought to have.” Bertrand Russell said that envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness. Not only is the envious person rendered unhappy by their envy, Russell argued, but that person may also wish to inflict misfortune on others to reduce their status. Psychologists distinguish “true” (malicious) envy from benign envy-malicious envy being proposed as an unpleasant emotion that causes the envious person to want to bring down the better-off even at their own cost, while benign envy involves recognition of other’s being better-off, but causes the person to aspire to be as good.

Wikipedia

Our reflections:

We find it very interesting that the Latin word for Envy comes from Invidia  – meaning that the word individual is embedded with codes of being envy. In the Quantum grammar philosophy it is claimed that our words have been hijacked, so that we all have been unconsciously programmed to negativity (you can listen more about this here). By the use of words and the language we speak into it´s negative form we manifest that reality. This, as our words are manifested into reality. Hence, we create the things we do not want by our thoughts and words.

So through our individualistic society of today we are ruled by unconscious envy and many struggle to rejoice with, and for, others. The deadly sin of envy is embedded in the word of the individual as normal-and we are not even aware of it! Many say that this is natural that we have these emotions of being envy, yet we see it differently. We see it as programs that keeps us enslaved. It is not natural but it is normal aswe all have these programs.

How often do you envy someone or something? How deep are your programs?

 What can we do to free ourselves from these unconscious programs?

 There are many ways and methods for inner empowerment and liberation of these unconscious programs. One way is working with the Sacred Sexuality practices. To bring an example, Ullis participated in a Yoni puja (celebration and honoring of the vagina) with hundreds of women. This is expressed below in the quote from Holy F*ck and Sacred Water – The Secret Connections to Everything (chapter 24):

……to celebrate our sisterhood by dancing. The sight was beautiful; hundreds of naked bodies were hugging, crying, singing, moving like one, dancing to “Girls just want to have fun.” There was no comparison, no competition, no jealousy, no envy, no backstabbing, no bullshit – just pure love, gratitude, and a deeply profound feeling of connectedness. We are all one – Oneness! This memory has become very precious to me! Sometimes when I almost lose hope for us human beings and humankind, I remember this feeling. It helps me to continue my work of guiding people into an increased consciousness. To help others purify their inner water, to flow and reconnect with their hearts! However, it is always an inside job to purify the water and to allow the heart to open. 

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at: www.reactivatedembodiment.com

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika