From Separation to Wholeness

From Separation to Wholeness


As we mentioned earlier – including in the blog post Unfuckwithable from 27/9 – everything we do, write, and offer is aligned with our mission and our vision of a better and more loving world for all.

Our work includes transforming unconsciousness into consciousness, and our shadows into our power (see all blog posts in September 2020 about the seven deadly sins, for example). To transform fear to release love. We are passionate about creating wholeness and sustainability. How to shift separation and instead wholeness and UNITY is created. This in order to restore balance and harmony.

Why does it looks so dark?

The irony is that the world has never been more unbalanced and disharmonious in our lifetime than it is now. This is because everything that has been hidden in the shadows for thousands of years is coming to exposure now. We become aware of it – it is in our face – and we cannot fail to see it or experience it. This gives each and one of us a new opportunity to create the world we want to see – the world we want to live in.

The question is if everybody wants to see – and dare to take the opportunity to transform their own “shit” – to let it go so something new can unfold and grow…

It is one of the qualities in what we call being “unfuckwithable” (see blog post Unfuckwithable 27/9).


A Vicious Cycle

The polarities in the world that create separation are more extreme than ever before (see blog post about new rules 30/9). Many people feel unease/disease. Many lack meaning, purpose and wholeness. Life feels empty.

We are stressed, sick, scared and anxious – and fed daily with the importance of keeping our distance and being separated. This creates even more stress. Our immune system is deteriorating.  We have more symptoms, diseases and are even more out of balance. It is a negative downward spiral that takes place in the individual – and thus in the collective field.




So what can you do to create more wholeness, harmony and balance?

We are not “allowed” to meet physically connected due to the current restrictions. At the same time, many of us long for more togetherness, community and meaning – along with like-minded people. It becomes a paradox in itself.

Many of us long for something and we know intuitively what we need – because our bodies, like the earth, automatically strive for balance and harmony.

Thus, it feels extra fun to present Wholyland!!

We have for several months co-created – together with several others – an international digital member’s platform…

Wholyland – an interactive platform for growth, awareness, wholeness and UNITY.


What is Wholyland?

”We co-create an interactive community for those who desire to live in a world which values authenticity, vulnerability, heart centered compassion and freedom for everyone to express and explore their own unique self and to reach their highest potential.

An online membership platform with the vision to manifest a wholy new Nation; where conscious, heart centred leaders connect and play beyond the current matrix to co-create a new reality where we thrive in sovereign leaderhood.

How would your life change if you could co-create what you quietly dream, hope and long for?

The wisdom of the podcast Live the Impossible show is a start to manifest your desired future on a personal and global level.  Where you start with yourself and then extend the principles into the greater world.

This cannot be done in isolation. To create lasting change you need the support of a community that fosters the exchange of ideas and perspectives, offers accountability and inspiration. This is a journey to a new way of living. Through collaboration we transform, balance and design a safe, harmonious and thriving world to benefit all. A place of wholeness and holiness.

Three Core beliefs we live by:

Wholeness: Recognise in order to be a fully expressed human being, we need to take into account all areas of life and our environment as well as our spirituality.

Sovereignty: Freedom to choose how we want to live, make decisions in alignment with our desires and take radical responsibility for our actions.

Genius: Our unique gifts, talents, perspectives and abilities we share with the world in an impactful way to co-create the world we want to see”.


The beta version opens in October.

As a reader of unfuckwithable blog, you get the unique opportunity to join Wholyland for free for 1 month!

Read more about Wholyland at:


Warmly Welcome to Wholyland – we look forward to interact with you here <3!

Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!


Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at:


Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

New f*cked up rules and restrictions around the world

New f*cked up rules and restrictions around the world


Now, one month after our book release of Holy F * ck and Sacred Water in Sweden, Tora is back in restrictive Denmark. The chaos and restrictions in the world have since then increased even more. Last month when Tora came home she was met by soldiers on the train. The military emptied the train of passengers so that everyone (in a row) would show passports. Rules on mandatory face masks in public transport had been introduced during these few days Tora was in Sweden. These rules have now become even stricter and also spread to cafes, restaurants and bars.


Rules in Denmark

We try to summarize these new f * cked up rules in Denmark as the logic may not be so obvious. We are curious to hear your experiences and reflections on the logic or lack thereof.

  • When traveling by public transport, wear a face mask at all times, even if you are sitting alone in the passenger compartment.
  • On the other hand, you can go and buy food at a supermarket without a face mask where people stand and walk close to each other
  • The virus only goes out after 10 pm in the evening. Previously it was midnight. The virus thus seems to be time-sensitive. Or perhaps a vampire – as darkness falls earlier and earlier this season.3In cafes, restaurants, etc., a face mask should be on when you walk or stand up.  As the virus probably floats high above the heads of those who sit down and do not need a face mask.
  •   In other words, you get up – face mask on. If you sit down – face mask off.
  • But on the bus, when you sit alone, the virus infects you regardless. So the virus is not only time sensitive, but also seems to be geographically aware.
  • On the other hand, not all of these rules apply in all municipalities. It is up to each municipality to decide how the virus is transmitted. It’s simply said a very spontaneous and various virus.

No, it’s too complicated to keep up with the rules that change several times a week. It’s also something about being allowed to be 500 people together sometimes, and 50 or was it 10 in other situations….

As a little update – there has been a law suggestion that came out on October 1st, 2020 with forced – everything! Also for those with a “society critical disease”!!!! Link to the Danish høringsforslag here. This is scary folks!

If the link is removed – here is the document Foreløbigt udkast – høring

But, we will have to move on to the rest of the world now….

What do Denmark say about Sweden then?

When a journalist asked Mette Fredriksen – the Danish Prime Minister – about the government’s attitude to Sweden’s such different methods, the short answer was: “It is not a competition” (see her here). We will leave it with that….

But at the same time, the world is competing to become the best at handling corona. As the Minister of Health in Denmark said so nicely on the news on 23/9 that “we will be the best“. 😉


What happens in Australia?

In Australia, they have decided that you are not allowed to sing “Happy birthday” . Why? The corona virus spread when you sing “P” and “B” sounds of course! 😉

In the state of Victoria, you are also not allowed to go out after 8 pm. You will be arrested there if you do not wear a face mask when you sit alone on a bench in the park. Or if you want to hold an event about freedom. One morning, police stormed a pregnant woman’s home and arrested her in front of her children. This is because she had posted an event on Facebook. The event was about how these restrictions and rules restrict our freedom.

And at the same time in the US

In the United States, mothers with newborn babies should touch them as little as possible in the first few weeks so that the babies do not become infected with corona (Read more here). Because there is no scientific evidence that it can create long-term problems in the future for the children if they do not get physical contact… Or? Oh wait, there are thousands of studies done over the decades that prove it. We think e.g. on attachment theory and how important attachment is for the immune system – both in children and mothers.


This separation has to STOP

We can continue to write for days about all these f *cked up rules and restrictions. What they all have in common is separation, separation and even more separation. When we are not allowed to touch each other, we become sicker as the immune system decreases.

The separation polarizes us into two extreme groups. Those who buy the whole corona pandemic story, and those who question the same. The latter group are now so-called conspiracy theorists. Either you are a conspiracy theorist or a sleeping sheep. Both labels are condescending and mean.

Is this the separated world we want?

What Holy F*ck and Sacred Water says:

In Holy F * ck and Sacred Water (Chapter 42) we also write about what is happening in the world now. Among other things, we write:

One way of upholding fear is the present coronavirus. The virus was consciously created by man to spread fear and dominance; it made people go into the stress response of “freezing” as we are being dominated by the “global virus” and its restrictions. All of a sudden, governments – without the democratic consent of the people – have put in hasty laws of forced social distancing and vaccinations. Freedom of speech is limited, and you will go to jail if you criticize the governments and their choices, as mentioned before.

Cash has been limited or removed due it being a “contamination risk.” For absolutely no logical reason, some, but not all countries have gone in to ordered lockdowns. Schools are closed, and businesses are going bankrupt. Unless it is a big chain, then they have not only been open, but made billions of dollars in profit from the lockdown. Police and military personnel walk the streets and fly their helicopters to restrict people from moving freely outdoors. Yet, people are allowed to go to supermarkets and big chain stores.


Please, share your reflections and thoughts in the comments below! We look forward hearing your perspective on this topic!

Be F*ckin’ MoRE – Become the Master of Reactivated Embodiment. Tora Zophia and Ulrika are transformational life designers and you can find them and their programs at:

Live Unfuckwithable!

Tora & Ulrika

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